Same words from a stranger vs. a partner

I am not meant to read something here. But unless you have a concept that is okay, nothing should move over there, then there can be no suffering because of it. So what we are speaking is very practical actually. It is not theory. And we can check this now. Anything appearing in front of us. How is it that? Same idea. How is it that a random stranger can come and speak some words. So energetically the same sort of movement is happening. But another close relationship, as we have defined it or labeled it, that can then speak some words. That makes a big difference. energetically the movement is similar. But it is a concept that this one should not behave like this with me. Or he or she should not say this to me. Is it? This idea of what the relationship should be like. Makes the difference.