It can only hurt a concept about yourself

And yet something seems to get hurt. Now something seems to get hurt why. If you have no concept about it, is it possible for something to get hurt based on something appearing seemingly outside? Is it possible to suffer when I am saying get hurt? I am not talking about the momentary reaction. But if you do not have a concept or a label or an idea about how something should be, then the appearance is just appearing. And there is no way that an appearance can hurt the self. So it can only hurt a concept that we have about ourselves. These are called attachments. I thought there was an animal. I just saw something move over there. And I realized it took over feet and lit.