If nothing is my concern, I cannot have pride or guilt

Let me make it simpler, let's continue with the metaphor of the part is, you are on the part of this lab. We are not suffering, we can still be pain from time to time. But when nothing is open, then suffering, which is resentment, grievances, right, false humility, we all do think we are not suffering from remorse, relief, all that is called suffering. Then, because nothing is my concern, I cannot, I will agree with this. If nothing is my concern, then I cannot have pride or guilt, everything is my fault is doing. So, when suffering comes, the, oh, I shouldn't have done that, why it's right, history, at work, I will show you to my co-worker, really not a good person, you see, when these kind of thoughts come, then we have to be, we have to look at them and say, who is this