The husband identity is one of the most sticky

And this husband identity can be one of the most sticky ones from my experience I am saying not from yours can be one of the most sticky ones. And it remained here and still remains to some extent here even after the sharing of such MBA. And Monday my wife actually came to me and said you know have you seen that the way you communicate with a sangha is different or even if you were to meet a stranger is different from how you communicate with me you know. And the husband just wanted to react and say all kinds of things but I look at it and I said yes this is true why is this. And the husband and identity still operates and I realize that it is really sticky one and and then some deep inquiry can happen about it and I can say that it is lighter than it was but I can still not say that it is completely gone. Because it has been a long long relationship. Don't worry about for more than 20 years now. So this can be sticky. The good news is that life is constantly now showing us what still needs to be contemplated what still needs to be enquired into. So rather than looking at those as points of failure to say you see I feel again I was doing so well as awareness and see I became a person again.