The road is full of traffic, but you are just on one side

This is what I mean. No matter what the content is, what the appearance is, without you can there be an appearance? Can you have the experience of an appearance? Unless you are there? Sometimes you are at this place, sometimes it's the environment. And that doesn't matter, ultimately. How much traffic is there on the road? It doesn't matter. Unless you have the idea that you have to cross it. Is it? If you are not trying to become anything or trying to get anywhere, the road can be full of traffic or it can be completely quiet. You are just on one side.