Where your time and attention go — that is the determinant

You're in a relationship. You say, I love you the most. And your partner says, I need more than words. You want to escape the life of my hand. Read the godly life, the spiritual life. Between the life, in the light of spirit. What takes up your time, attention. Focus. That is the determinant of that. Many, many, many people in the social circumstances. Most people I talk to, they say, I want to be rich, rich. So what is the determinant of that? Is it just the concept? So I want to read a few books and inspiration. I also attended some meditation classes. I'm very spiritual.