What actually got attacked?

Those sound waves carry some daggers in them. What actually happened? Your body is not physically heard. So what is it that got attacked? And suppose that you are brand new to satsang, you don't even know what the santa is and somebody comes and tells you, you are just terrible. You don't deserve to be in the santa, you are not talking to me, you are wondering, it doesn't have any effect. So it is not in the content of the world. It is not in the hearing of them. Then what is it in? What is the potential for suffering? Suppose you told a one-year-old child this. Nothing happened. So what makes it different for you?