What you can do is not grasp — be an empty vessel for God

That's why it has to unfold. That's why it cannot be forced. What you can do is not do. What you can do is not grasp. I knew an empty vessel for God. So as much as much as you create is the room that you are offering to God who is still. What if you are not handed over? That makes your duality within you and duality will lead to suffering.