Try telling your partner you don't exist - no longer fun

words are correct. Maybe better word, one will come, but from experience more to few will get a sense of what I am saying. So, remember first few satsan that you ever came to Adhuaka, first few satsan, one you two go something like that. In the first satsan you feel excited, there is no mean, there never was, I never existed, then your partner father eats with you. What happens? And you try to convince them also, but you do not exist and I do not exist, but it is no longer fun. So, so both ends of the spectrum we have to accept and straddle.