Offer yourself as an empty plate to God

If it is the deserved or sweetest, then that is the love in our heart. So, when we offer ourselves to Him, it's full love in our hearts. Then, I don't feel he knows how to turn away from that. See, of course, everything is ultimately his grace and he cannot be forced. But if there was a way to force him, probably this is the only way that comes close to forcing. Just offer yourself as a plate, empty plate to God. Just with that one bite of your heart, which is available to Him.