The heart is never going to be authoritative or rushing

the tip so that we can discern more clearly, like the head is always rushing, it's always authoritative and troublesome, even when it's pretending, like some of you feel like you're seeing Anantas, why are you saying, my dear child, I want you to go to, you can still smell, no, that if it's coming from the head, it's the head which is posing, easy. So because there is no love there, there's no patience there, the heart is never going to push you, it is never going to be authoritative, it is not going to say, if you're running out of time, see, all this is the mind rushing, grasping, so if you notice tendencies to rush and to grasp, then you can notice, it is the mind. If you notice the presence of an unconditional love, then you can be pretty certain, it's the heart.